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Location: cape coral, florida, United States

I'm 40 yrs old going on 25ish. I love to sit in front of my 16 track digital recorder and lay some tracks down...I love being with my children

Tuesday, February 07, 2006

To move or not to move.....

Sherry and I were talking about moving and taking advantage of the Realty boom where our house value has trippled since we have bought it. This will mean moving further north up the Gulf where the market hasnt really gone crazy. The good news is we will be selling in a sellers market and going to buy in a buyers market. Sounds good right? Maybe, maybe not. I dont know if moving now will be the right thing to do. I have a good job and have been here for a while. We will be moving to an area that has more to offer for the kids anyway Disney, MGM and Universal, and I can get a good job up there too. Im not worried about that. Im worried that Sherry is thinking things might be better up there and they wont. I dont mean between us but in general. I think she thinks moving will make some difference. To me it really doesnt matter. I can work and make it anywhere. Especially where I have been and gone thru.
I just hope this isnt some type of finding myself move. I dont think she knows how hard it is to move agian. We got a lot of shit to get rid of and do. Putting a house on the market isnt easy and will be frustrating. As long as she knows she will have to handle it or at least most of it than go for it........

4 Comments:

Blogger Gary said...

Difficult decision. Stephani had to keep on at me for over two years before I agreed we could afford to move. Luckily, we got into our place in HB with equity that I had in my little condo, it's a stretch for us, but we are way happier. I can scooter to work, and we are closer to the beach, her family, there was everything to gain. Not an easy decision if it involves changing jobs.

Thanks for reading the words to the new song. I have it completely written, just trying to figure out best way to record it. I hear drums with brushes instead of sticks and am a bit baffled as to how I would go about doing that in Ableton. I may do just guitar and bass initially and add percussion later. It is a lovely song.

Make sure whatever house you consider has a room that you can do up as a studion ;-)

1:58 PM  
Blogger ginab said...

You are kidding about "as long as she knows..."? Or, a pun to how nothing will be any different?

Then, well, why move?

-g+bb

3:14 PM  
Blogger PTfan said...

I am itching to move as well but I cannot right now. I just really want to start fresh. I wish I had enough money to pay off everythign that I owe and I want to get rid of all my old things and get all new things. I want change in a major way. That isn't reality though so I will have to direct my thoughts differently and make the very best of what I have right now. I hope you guys make the wise decision.

8:30 PM  
Blogger Vallypee said...

Hi Mike
Just popped in to say hi, as I was rather touched by your blog. Sounds as if there's a deal of soul searching going on, which no one can relieve you of.
Nevertheless, it looks as if you are by nature a positive kind of guy, and hey, if you've got music, sunshine, wonderful kids and a BLOG, then there's always something to brighten your day!
I know music is the single most important element in my life,(altho, there are those who think it's my dog, ho,ho!) and it is the greatest spirit lifter there is, so when you're down, just turn up the volume! Hmmm, the Who is always good for that, no??
Look after yourself and be happy
Val

1:38 PM  

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